What we can be selected

My younghood spread into a period of difficult years of the country. In a time I went to eat dessert with a girl friend in a shop near the Xa Tay market, a disaster has hit on me – my old mini bike that I stand before the shop poured suddenly leaning toward the cigarettes chest in the side of the road. 

I stood looking at the pack of cigarettes: Hoa Cuc, Mai, Da Lat that was thrown out in mixed mess of broken glass. Those who flocked to see the curious, this person said: "It is bad luck for both them!", others whispered: "The cigarettes seller was poor and now she unfortunated more" ...

After several minutes of mental shock, ignored the whispers, I approached the cigarettes seller, withdrawal of document ID form my wallet and handed it to her, said quietly: "I hold temporary identification of me, right tomorrow night I will go to send you money to buy the other cigarettes chest. "

The unfortunately be published with my parents and sisters. Feeling is revealed only to God through prayer while carrying out his piggy dam: "Help me integrity of their responsibilities." Later, this became an unforgettable memory of me. In memories that absolutely no shadow of regret or guilty ...

Napoleon Hill once said: "The only thing you can certainly control your reaction to the previous situation." No one can know for sure that what will happen, what you can do the opposite it. When an incident occurs, the second part of the "reach" of you is your response. Blame or responsibility, willing to learn or give up, all are your choice. And such times will gradually form your personality.

To never, or at least avoid the anxious mood, style regret "at the time why I behave like that" or "if ...", also to avoid the unfortunate consequences, please create a good habit, it is "prepared". A positive first preparation requirements, objectives, constraints and challenges which we must face and solve in their work and in life. The preparation should be fixed right in thinking to the positive signals that control the way we do, how we react to situations, things and situations.

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